Lust and Love

Someone wrote this on Facebook and I have to admit that I agree with it.

Lust is Easy. Love is Hard. Like is Important.

Lusting for someone is easy. Lust can also be easily satisfied. Lust is something without any commitment attached. I suppose that's where affairs starts. Human beings are made as such that responsibility is the last thing they would want to have. As this paragraph ends, it also shows that lust is short lived.

Now, loving someone. I flunk this department with flying colours. When I love someone, I give him my all, 200% if not and never asking anything in return. :) I must be the stupidest person living to be doing such a thing. As said, love is blind and in contrary, how can there be love at first sight? Ponder on that!

I love the idea of being in a match make marriage. For I do not believe that a person should fall in love and then get married. Cynical you might say but think about this for a second, in any motivational talk you have ever attended don't they always tell you this: Picture your goal and work towards it?

I feel that in an arranged marriage, it is the same thing. You get to your goal first and then work it out! In India, where fixed marriage is a common thing and guess what? They have the lowest divorce rate in the world! Tell me now, how did it work?? Because you know you're in the marriage for life, regardless what happens you have to work it out. THAT'S how everything in the world should work! Looking for solutions and not pushing the blame to everyone around you. Its not a tai-chi demostration.

Loving someone isn't easy but with communication and compromising with each other. Things will definitely work out. A person's limitation to everything in life is only so much. No two thumbs are alike. So what I can do for the love of my life, isn't something that the next person in line would do at all.

Like is Important. ;)If you don't like the person a wee bit. There's no possibility that it can even progress to anything more than aquaintance. :) I can love more than one person but I will only be willing to devote my time/effort to one who deserves it best.

I have to like you even to be friends with you. :) I may be an arsehole at times but I guarantee you, I am like the craziest yet sane person at the same time. If that makes any cow sense! :)

You lust for me then love me and wants me to like you!! I'm shameless!